Help 4 the Gardners: October 2011

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

SOLD OUT!

It's only October 26th and the Pasta Dinner is officially SOLD OUT!!!! Thank you to all those who have resonded with reservations and/or donations. We are looking forward to an incredible night!

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

One more month until the dinner and things are really coming together! We have been amazed by the generosity of businesses and individuals. Many thanks to our various sponsors (Proietti's, LiDestri Foods, Charlie's, Maidstone Coffee, Webster Fairport Elks Lodge) for providing the meal!

And the raffle items are really beginning to come in as well. We have already received the following commitments:
Handmade Alpaca Scarf
Various pieces of Handmade Jewelry
Custom Birthday Crowns
Manicure GC
Fun Fur Scarf
Photo Prints and other Digital Art
Celebrating Home Basket
Mary Kay Basket
Instant Lotto Scratch-off Tree
Scentsy Basket
Case of Sauce
Stationary
Family Fun Gift Basket
Body Soap & Lotion Set
Bill Gray's GC
Brueggers Bagel Bundles
Pampered Chef Gift Basket
Hand Crafted Ceramic Piece

Raffles make these events so much fun and we continue to solicit donations! If you are donating something for the raffle, please coordinate drop off/pick-up prior to Nov 12.

And don't forget to RSVP (with your payment)- ASAP!!!!! Seats are selling fast. We expect to sell out very soon, and you won't want to miss this event.

Thanks to everyone who has participated in any way to help the Gardner Family. Besides financial support, I know the outpouring of love has been a tremendous source of encouragement to them.

~Sue

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

A Proud Auntie Moment

So my sister-in-law called me today to tell me that she found the Pasta Dinner invitation in my 10-yr old niece's book bag, along with the little background card. She asked her why she took it. Kaitlin told her that she wanted to help out the family and was taking it to school so her class could do a penny drive. Her teacher was so impressed that Kaitlin had taken it upon herself - that she agreed to do it!

Brent and Jodie- you touch the hearts of all those you meet, near or far, young and old!

Monday, October 3, 2011

And the winner is...(or could be)....YOU!

We will be having lots of wonderful items up for raffle at the Pasta Dinner. So far these items include:

Several sets of Custom Jewelry
Crocheted Alpaca Scarf
Celebrating Home Gift Basket
Instant Lotto Scrath-Off Tree
Mary Kay Gift Basket
Wickedly Scents Body Lotion/Soap Basket
School/Office Supply Basket
Several pieces of art
Oil Change and/or Car Wash Certificates

Many thanks to all those who have already participated or contributed in some way!

We will continue to solicit donations for raffle items. If you have something you would like to contribute, please let me know! shawnsue4ever@yahoo.com

Why Give?

Brent and Jodie Gardner knew early in their marriage that they had a special calling. Brent and Jodie not only felt compelled to adopt children but they would only consider children with significant special needs. Jodie describes this action not as a choice, but rather the path which they knew was chosen for them. In 2005, Tyler joined the Gardner family. In addition to Down Syndrome, Tyler had other challenges including Hirschsprungs Disease and Klinefelter's Syndrome. But Tyler thrived in the Gardners’ home, and it was of little surprise when Emmalee Ann joined their family just a year later from the same adoption agency. Emma was born premature and had a number of risk factors as well.

In 2006, Brent accepted a position in Rochester, NY and the family moved across the country. The children were adjusting well, Brent was enjoying his new position, and life was very good. In 2007, the Gardners received an unexpected call from their adoption agency. There was a baby boy, born 15 weeks premature and who weighed only 21 ounces. In his first weeks, he had already experienced seizures, a brain bleed and infections. His outlook was bleak, but he deserved a home and the love of a family. After some prayer, and understanding that this baby came with no guarantees, the Gardners quickly agreed to adopt the little boy whose name would later become Nathaniel. And after spending many months in the hospital, Nate also came home to his forever family. But the joy was short lived. On March 2, 2008 the Gardners’ lives would be turned upside down when Tyler was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia.

In the three years that have passed, the family has experienced more trying times than is possible to list. Tyler is now in remission, but spent 2 long and difficult years receiving treatment. He has had a number of surgeries and infections and it seems he has spent as much time in a hospital as he has at home. Nate is also a survivor and has defied the odds against him, but the road has not been easy. He has also required numerous surgeries and although thriving physically, continues to experience many developmental delays. During this time, Jodie also broke both ankles and was laid up for many months. And unfortunately her ankle healed wrong- twice.

While Tyler was still receiving cancer treatments and Jodie was laid up with her ankles, Brent began experiencing troublesome symptoms. After many months of trying to figure out what was going on, Brent was diagnosed with Behcet’s Disease in November of 2009. Since that time, Brent’s health has steadily declined. Behcet’s is a progressive disease and eventually Brent was forced to quit his job and is now disabled. Over recent months Brent’s health has rapidly deteriorated. He has experienced many bouts with dangerous infections and, more recently, began suffering from Congestive Heart Failure. At this time, Brent is still hospitalized.

As one would imagine, it has been particularly difficult for Jodie: trying to manage the care of three children (two with significant needs) and a very sick spouse. Jodie states, “When we committed ourselves to adopting children with special needs, we never imagined that the responsibility would come to fall on only one of us.”
With both families residing out West, Jodie and Brent have relied mostly on their friends from church and Adoption STAR. And at this time, these friends have all joined forces in effort to raise funds to help offset some of Brent’s medical bills and to help care for their three children.

We are hoping that you too might be willing to help this family who is experiencing such desperate need.